I would like to be able to email videos to my patients but not send them as an attachment like the flip video does. I also dont want to use anything like youtube because I only want them to see THAT video which I send. Does anyone have an idea how this can be done with the iphones camera?
I'm not sure about the flip video option, but you can set your youtube to private on your videos. Once you upload to Youtube, go to your videos, click "edit" on your video, and under "Privacy" select "Unlisted." When you're ready to send the video, copy/paste the URL to whoever you want to sent it to and they'll be able to view it only.
Just a reminder though, the person who has the URL can have other people view it if they sent it to someone else. Hope this helps.
More info from Youtube below:
What is an unlisted video?
An unlisted video is a different type of private video. "Unlisted" means that only people who know the link to the video can view it (such as friends or family to whom you send the link). An unlisted video will not appear in any of YouTube's public spaces (such as search results, your channel, or the Browse page). An unlisted video is different to a private video in these ways:
you don't need a YouTube account to watch the video (you can see an unlisted video if someone sends you the video's link)
there's no 25 person sharing limit
Even though your video will not appear in any of YouTube's public spaces, links to the video could still appear elsewhere on the web if anyone who knows the video's URL shares it. It is therefore up to you to maintain the privacy of your video and the unlisted URL. You can further restrict the video at any time by returning to your account and marking the video as Private.