Welcome to the Forum. Now prepare yourself. I'm going to give you a short, sweet lecture.
Fact: You build the app for the IOS, not the other way around! If you have apps crashing then write the devs and ask why they don't update their products. It' not's Apple's fault.
I've been an Android phone user up to this year and every comment you made I have seen made by people who own Android Phones. Also to let you know Apple is not the #1 phone system, Android is but there are a lot of different manufactures of Android phones.
Your complaint about dropping wifi? I have to admit on my Droid Bionic it held wifi better then any other phone I had running Gingerbread 3.2, but now it has ICS and I haven't had a chance to test wifi.
What have you done on your end to make a better wifi connection? You see with every new OS changes of some sort happen. Maybe simply changing the channel on your wifi will help. Skull says on a "N" router to make sure both antennae are connected (not quite sure what he meant by the but I'll pass it along."
One of the things we say in Forums is search before posting. You are correct, there is an issue with connecting with wifi and it being grayed out on the phone. Try doing it from your computer, I have had better luck. Just make sure your devices are awake. Or connect to your computer and back up. It's not that hard.
Some of your issues may be fixed with a simple hard reset (hold top button down while pushing bottom button). Give that a try if you haven't already.
A n router is as below;
802.11n
data rate: 540 Mbit/sec (that's faster than Fast Ethernet (100 Mbit/s))
range: about the same as 802.11g
operates on 2.4 GHz or 5 GHz
802.11g
data rate: 54 Mbit/sec
range: 15 metre (from base station)
(Or if use 11 Mbit/sec data rate, the distance is 45 metre)
operates on 2.4 GHz
also known as: AirPort Extreme
It's a dual band and both bands need to be connected when possible ie: like at home
when you have control of it for the best performance. It makes a world of difference in download speed and conectivity you will get.
FWIW...some home based routers work better than others with the various modems the ISP's give out. My Charter modem which happens to be a Cisco modem did work with a NetGear router..but not as well as it does now with a Cisco (Linksys) and would cause drop outs and slow downs..They aren't suppose to do this according to NetGear..but I can tell you for a fact they did just this on mine...all brand new equipment too..replaced 3 times.
Also..
if his wi-fi is dropping out away from home,like at his work location...he should check with his IT department and see if they have enabled any timers on the connections. My work does this and will either drop the connection after intervals of inactivity or depending on which router on large data transfers or some at set hourly times. Some will notify you of this when you connect...others don't and can leave you guessing what is going on.
Also...as said..a hard reset and restore as new does clear up many issues..as well as taking your I-device into the Genius Bar at a Apple location and allowing them to reinstall everything if possible...and was what I did to fix the same issue he is having.
His issue isn't one that many have..
I don't have the typical issue with it being greyed out or unable to connect.
I had the same issue as well...and looked unsuccessfully for a reason here after 6.01 came out..so lecturing a person on this is ...well...is simply not needed.
Chewy...Welcome to the forum..and don't sweat Apple's position in the mobile world...they have been and will remain to be the gold standard all others are measured against for quality for some time. There may be more Androids produced and offered by many...but that sure as hell doesn't make them #1. Since you have had many of their devices...and have been with them for as long as you have you should already be aware of this. People are always so quick to Bash them on their short comings..and for doing things the way they do...it is nothing new.. Wondering if the grass is greener on the other side of the fence is natural...but don't just believe any hype...go and check out the competition yourself...you'll know for sure what works best for your needs...Apple has new management now...so.. I suspect things will get much better than they appear right now...so in the mean time go get your phone fixed and start enjoying it.
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