Then I was trying to restore it because it had the connect to iTunes phrase on it so I updated it to 5.1.1 n that's what it told me but the I click in the remote restore it fetches the blobs n then it goes to the apple logo like its bout to restore but don't do anything
Best thing to do at this point would be to do a fresh restore in iTunes to 5.1.1, setup as new iPhone and then follow the downgrade method. Make sure you jailbreak before restoring from backup.