OK, I found this forum with several user's wonderful help! Thanks to all of you. 
Here is my first issue-
I don't want to spent an hour+ with Help on the Phone.
I never find an answer to my question(s) in the Help on the Internet.
I have had a phone since 1995. Every phone was NOT an Iphone until this past year.
During the first 17-18 years, I found my phone to be very user friendly.
During the last year, I have wanted to smash this phone at least 80 to 100 times. I get so upset I feel myself shaking inside.
That is to say "other phone" zero thoughts of smashing and iPhone, constant desire to smash. I cannot afford to change my phone for a long time. I am retired and just want to be able to work this phone.
What I am looking for is Help on the iPhone to stop the desire to smash.
Where is the HELP just for the phone - not the universe.
I hope someone can understand this. Truly I am in awe of the late Steve Jobs. But I don't think like he did. I need a Help section.
BTW-I did teach MS applications for 6 years. Unfortunately, that IS how I think. It IS logical to me. Apple, I cannot find the logic for things. (Why, when I want to go back one page, it kicks me out of the place I am visiting. There are few if any arrows, and no HELP) I should not get started on my frustration, I could write a book on my issues with this device.
Yes, I have gone to the Genius Bar multiple times. They enjoy tapping and flicking their fingers at about 100 mph and then say 'that is how you do it.' I take notes and sometimes, if able, I record what I am told. It should not be so hard to get help.
Pat

Here is my first issue-
I don't want to spent an hour+ with Help on the Phone.

I never find an answer to my question(s) in the Help on the Internet.

I have had a phone since 1995. Every phone was NOT an Iphone until this past year.

During the first 17-18 years, I found my phone to be very user friendly.

During the last year, I have wanted to smash this phone at least 80 to 100 times. I get so upset I feel myself shaking inside.

That is to say "other phone" zero thoughts of smashing and iPhone, constant desire to smash. I cannot afford to change my phone for a long time. I am retired and just want to be able to work this phone.
What I am looking for is Help on the iPhone to stop the desire to smash.
Where is the HELP just for the phone - not the universe.
I hope someone can understand this. Truly I am in awe of the late Steve Jobs. But I don't think like he did. I need a Help section.
BTW-I did teach MS applications for 6 years. Unfortunately, that IS how I think. It IS logical to me. Apple, I cannot find the logic for things. (Why, when I want to go back one page, it kicks me out of the place I am visiting. There are few if any arrows, and no HELP) I should not get started on my frustration, I could write a book on my issues with this device.
Yes, I have gone to the Genius Bar multiple times. They enjoy tapping and flicking their fingers at about 100 mph and then say 'that is how you do it.' I take notes and sometimes, if able, I record what I am told. It should not be so hard to get help.
Pat