Thanks for your help we tried the app before posting the question and it didn't work it the help video it said we had to drag the song ringtone we made from the library to the ringtone tab on iTunes but there is no ringtone tab on iTunes I tried to create a new playlist named ringtones but that didn't work either sorry I didn't see the other post or I would have just asked there i never had a iPhone before so all the other phones I used you would just go to your sound settings to change it but I can't seem to figure it out for a iPhone