Sorry about adding to your thread but have a concern as a parent with iMessage. I can't monitering my children's texts or who they are texting with this feature. I know it can be turned off but it cannot be locked out. The other problem I have is it uses up their data on limited data plans. Why would you want to do that when text msg's are unlimited and data is not? I don't know if this point has been raise yet but it should be. As a father I love to provide my kids with cool things it makes them feel special. I have their pass words on things like facebook and keep track of its use but the iMessage is of great concern to me. Spoke to apple about it the rep agreed with me completely. He advised me to post to apple feedback. He also advised that if enough people raise the same issue it can and would be fixed. A little help from other reporting the same concern to apple would be helpful. Thanks to all that do.