My wife & I are having issues. Seems she has access to my phone remotely and can see everything I enter on my phone. Texts, calendar, even information I log into the App "Chronicle". I know this sounds paranoid, but she even comments on my discussion with my councilor as though she can listen in. Is it possible that her "friend" told her how to hack my phone to do this. She has access to my phone but the phone isn't jailbroke. How do I search my phone for spyware?